This is an 80s hit by Belgian singer Margriet Hermans. The memory attached to this song is Margriet herself as she passed away a few days ago. I will always remember her as a natural, uncomplex woman not scared of being herself and with a great sense of self-deprecation. She didn't want to be perfect too. I don't know if she always was like that in private life as well, but I have only known her when seen on tv or heard on the radio and so that's how I will remember her. And this song is one of many beautiful songs she left behind.